Some ladies like their male friends better. So, instead of talking about latest fashion trends, discussing sex positions and exchanging makeup tips with other girls, they prefer watching football and hanging out with their guy friends. If you are one of the ladies who knows what it’s like to be one of the guys, you probably also know that introducing your new boyfriend to them is not always a walk in the park. Namely, it is natural for your new guy to be a little jealous of them, but you can easily solve that problem with some planning and clever strategies. It doesn’t matter if you’ve just started with BBW dating or you met a guy on over 50 dating site, here are some steps you could take to tackle this tricky topic.
Explain that you are just friends
The first thing you need to do is explain to him calmly that you and your buddies are just friends, nothing more. Explain the dynamic of your friendship, and let him know what your priorities are. If your boyfriend is a normal and reasonable guy and if your friends don’t have feelings for you, all should be well.
If you think that keeping them apart will resolve your problem, you can’t be more wrong. In your guy’s head, your geeky friends all look like models for Calvin Klein, and he will keep thinking that your palls are all in love with you until he sees the truth with his own eyes. If you introduce them formally, he will realize that nothing is going on and you will put him at ease. Therefore, arrange a meeting in a safe environment and explain in advance why your friends are so important to you.
Prepare your friends
Yes, you should prepare your friends too to ensure that the meeting goes well. Let them know what your man likes so that they know how to approach him. Furthermore, if they connect from the start he will see why you hand out with them and let his guard down.
Put yourself in his shoes
Try to see things from his point of view and try to figure it out whether you are doing something wrong. How would you feel if you were him? Would you feel comfortable with him hanging out with all his female friends all the time? Think about what would make you feel less jealous and apply it to your situation.