Unfortunately, a lot of BBW singles give up on their love life because they think men won’t accept them due to their size. Movies and media have convinced us that guys are only after one smoking hot, skinny bodies. Well, this has nothing to do with reality. However, there are several qualities they look for in a woman in general so if you want to find love, keep these in mind.
A woman who makes him feel manly
Every guy wants to feel masculine and be a hero in his girl’s eyes. On the other hand, there are many strong and independent women who are crushing it in every aspect of their lives nowadays and this is great. However, don’t get surprised if you the only men who want to date you are complete wusses if you’re constantly acting dominant in a relationship.
Confident, manly guys are usually attracted to ladies who complement their masculinity with their feminine presence. This doesn’t mean that you cannot be equal in a relationship, you totally can. But, if you want to be with a guy who knows how to take charge and lead the way, you must allow him to be that kind of a man by taking a step back sometimes. After all, letting go of the wheel and letting someone else take care of you can be quite nice for a change.
A woman who is fun and playful
Guys want to be with a woman who knows how to have fun and enjoy the moment. Therefore, don’t be serious all the time and put too much pressure on your man. Instead, learn how to enjoy your time together and forget about serious topics and talks about the future, at least for the moment. When you get to know each other better and you see that this guy might be the one, you can start transitioning that conversation into something a little more serious.
A woman who loves her life
No man will want to be with you unless you already have an incredible life without him. If you are not happy with the way things are, a relationship is not going to make them any better. So, find things that make you want to get up in the morning, see what you are passionate about and pursue your interests. When you start feeling happy with yourself, men will notice it and will want to spend more time around you.